tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2966033315832731461.post7127900675502583135..comments2023-05-21T04:35:52.652-07:00Comments on Death by Calories: Confessions.Dizhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14097203800335179179noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2966033315832731461.post-19491397082498236202010-05-11T20:11:31.398-07:002010-05-11T20:11:31.398-07:00Diz I LOVE you and you are amazing but you cannot ...Diz I LOVE you and you are amazing but you cannot keep second guessing yourself!! I know that you have no intention of hurting him but your literally prolonging his and your pain. Would you rather break a tooth off piece by piece or just rip the whole gosh darn thing out? Break ups aren't usually easy and its amazing that even though you don't want to be with him you still respect him. And it was a good idea to make plans with friends instead of going to the concert. dan has to understand the line. And if HE respects you he will. Diz I know that your going through hurt and internal whirlpools but sitting on the couch and keep rethinging is not going to help. Hit the pavement, and run till your mind clears. Go to the gym and push out the bad thoughts. Please girl! Your are worth it and punishing yourself by not working out and feeling gross will not make anything better! Much love and big hugsMs. Chunky Chickhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00040326465746097157noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2966033315832731461.post-50254859724570046332010-05-11T08:22:57.481-07:002010-05-11T08:22:57.481-07:00Maybe you should just concentrate on yourself and ...Maybe you should just concentrate on yourself and what makes you happy without a man. If you have some stuff to sort out on your own independant of a new/old relationship and you take care of it first, then moving forward in a relationship will be healthier and maybe not so convoluted? <br />If Dan really does like you and wants to pursue a serious relationship then he will wait for you. If you're not ready (or not sure it's him you like and not just parts of him) then you're hurting him, but also making yourself crazy and putting the rest of your goals on hold for something that seems entirely confusing & consuming. <br />If you feel everything in your own life is sorted out (and sorry if I was presumptuos) then do what you want in the moment & just be honest that you want to date multiple people and not settle into a serious relationship. Good LUCK!!Ginahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05804162038632872727noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2966033315832731461.post-53126620807841704842010-05-10T23:44:53.790-07:002010-05-10T23:44:53.790-07:00Hmmmm, this is not an easy call. The obvious thin...Hmmmm, this is not an easy call. The obvious thing to say would be 'drop dan,' but for some reason I don't think I can say that. He sounds kind of amazing...but what do I know...? <br /><br />I want to know what happens soon!!Kenliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09514481580609757683noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2966033315832731461.post-85247870264244577132010-05-10T19:02:22.852-07:002010-05-10T19:02:22.852-07:00I just found your blog...and I think you're fu...I just found your blog...and I think you're funny! I enjoyed reading this post, even though writing it stressed you out! It reminds me of myself back in my dating days. I think you shoudn't worry too much and just have fun! You have been honest with him, so I don't think you are bad at all. Yes, he likes you more than you like him. But he's a big boy. I say you live it up and have fun while you can. Whether that includes Dan or not...time will tell! :)KELLIhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07883038450433416325noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2966033315832731461.post-87323224973086878902010-05-10T18:51:17.860-07:002010-05-10T18:51:17.860-07:00Well of course you drive him crazy - especially wh...Well of course you drive him crazy - especially when you really aren't worried about talking to him a few days, you keep saying lets be friends - but you'll still go out with him - you are a challenge my dear - men love that crap - just as much as we do. So he tries and tries to get you and you love the attention - so you keep going back and forth. The attention is intriguing - being chased is intriguing - I don't think you are actually all that intrigued by Dan himself - otherwise you would be with him. <br />You need to take a stand - and get what you want - stop being wishy washy about it - it's not fair to either of you - and Genie is right - make some decisions and stick with them. And that goes for everything.<br />What do you want? It may be time to really start exploring that - and then = go get it.Beth Allumshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01730199957997049294noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2966033315832731461.post-24432832103718442252010-05-10T18:18:44.620-07:002010-05-10T18:18:44.620-07:00Man, Where do I start.
I love you even if you don...Man, Where do I start.<br /><br />I love you even if you dont shower. Dont wanna sniff you, but still love you :) Have you ever thought that maybe the sluggish feeling youve got going on is medical? Maybe we should swing by a doctor just to make sure. Id hate to try and motivate a sick girl, lol. The Dan thing is tricky tricky tricky...its good you arent going to the concert. I know that you really want to be friends with him, but realistically, that might not be something HE can handle. I would tell you to try and talk it out with him...but from what youve said, he doesnt sound like a very good listener when it comes to the "can we just be friends" speech. I know that in the end, whatever decision you make, will be the right one. I think he knows that you dont have malicious intentions, youre just a little iffy on what to do or where to go from here. Enjoy LA and Im here if you need me :)<br /><br />Lotsa Love!The Curvaceous Conundrumhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09484057392273286886noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2966033315832731461.post-60509542049341608502010-05-10T18:10:17.721-07:002010-05-10T18:10:17.721-07:00Oh, Diz, I don't know..... Your love life is v...Oh, Diz, I don't know..... Your love life is very complicated. Still, something seems to draw you back to Dan... (I have to root for him a bit, my son's name is Dan.) Yet, you shouldn't hang onto him if you're really not interested... but are you really not interested? It's a little hard to tell. <br /><br />Definitely a time out with Dan, and investigation of the new guy. He should take someone else to the concert. They always want you more, when you don't want them. I can see why you're confused....<br /><br />GOOD LUCK with all of this. Get off that couch, make some decisions, and live with them. You'll feel better.Genie @ Diet of 51https://www.blogger.com/profile/12666514999795984295noreply@blogger.com